Kugonana ndi mlendo kapena bwenzi latsopano kuli ndi zabwino zake. Zimawonjezera zochitika, ngakhale lingaliro la choletsedwa chotero kwa ambiri limadzutsa, kuwerengera mphamvu ndi malingaliro a mnzanuyo. Kugonana mu bar kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kosasangalatsa ngati pabedi. Kugonana kumatako ndi kusisita kwa banjali kumayenera kuyamikiridwa ndi kulimbikitsidwa.
Mtsikanayo adamuwombera mnyamatayo chifukwa samatha kupsopsona kapena kuseweretsa. Iye akadali namwali. Choncho mayi akulondola - mwana wamkazi ayenera kuthandiza mchimwene wake kukhala mwamuna. Ndipo amayi sakanakhumba choyipa chirichonse pa iye. Mwamwayi mwanayo ali ndi makolo apamwamba chotero.